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THANK YOU! for your interest in this subject matter and in my story. INTENT: #support for the #significant_others of #transsexuals and #transgender, to #advocate the necessity of being your authentic self, and to share information with others. By this, I hope to support your own journey, or add to your understanding of the journey of someone you know. ABOUT ME: A 45 year old #heterosexual woman, divorced w/children, I met Jack and fell in love. Six years into our relationship, he confided his secret desire--Jack wanted to be a woman. Before his disclosure, I had no reason to suspect his interest. It was a shocking surprise! It was the decade of the 1990's. Little information was available to help ME understand 'Why' and 'What next". Not only was Jack in transition, but by virtue of the circumstance, so was I. Guided by my heart, I began a journey of my own. Stepping out of my comfort zone I challenged my attitudes and belief systems, as well as, my own sexual orientation to help me decide 'Do I stay, or do I go"?

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Wednesday, December 4, 2013

"Coming Out" -- or, "Will I pass?" Confidence is Key!


The question every #TS has at some time whether it is a M2F or F2M. "Will I 'pass' when I go out in public?"

You dress, you look into the mirror and the image before you is the best you can do." "I'm ready." You say to yourself. Then you take the chance, and go out in public. Deep down you are wondering if you will pull it off. Will the person you pass on the street see you M2F, as female? or F2M, as a male? or, will some way you look, sound, or move, give you away? After all, this is new to you. You have not had a chance to perfect it yet. .... but you do it. Confidence is key!

"It seems to be working." you say to yourself. "It seems no one guesses what I have gone through to get here, in this moment." You feel you are managing to 'pass'. "What's next?" you think to yourself. You head for the Ladies/Mens Room." ....

#coming out #fear #confidence #success #M2F #F2M #trans #Ladies #restroom #Mens #TeenTrans #crossdresser how did you handle this difficult challenge? Please share your success story, tips, how-to, words of encouragement. Mostly, #words_of_encouragement

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